We’ve all heard the expression: we want what we can’t have.
Sometimes that’s simply something out of reach. But other times, we end up wanting what we shouldn’t have — something bad for us, or even morally wrong.
There are degrees to this. We can desire something good, something attainable, something unattainable, something harmful, something sinful. The object of our desire matters enormously. And so does the question of where we’re directing all of that focus and energy.
One way to examine this is through the lens of temperance — one of the four cardinal virtues.
“Temperance is the moral virtue that moderates the attraction of pleasures and provides balance in the use of created goods. It ensures the will’s mastery over instincts and keeps desires within the limits of what is honorable.” (CCC 1809)
We have to take an honest look at what we desire. Not just our actions, but our desires themselves. Because even if an unhealthy desire hasn’t led to harmful action yet, it’s still doing damage. It’s cancerous for the soul.
Where are we directing our desire? That’s worth sitting with today.
Let us pray. Lord, purify our desires. Help us to want what is good, what is true, what is honorable — and give us the strength to turn away from what is not. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
Keep fighting the good fight. Our Lady of Victory, pray for us.
